tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9029054867250394442024-03-20T01:16:27.888-07:00Buttered Toast RocksMichellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.comBlogger1012125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-16111798221323763932016-02-14T17:20:00.000-08:002016-02-14T17:20:02.454-08:00I Love.I love a good walk, a good book and a good coffee.<div>
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I love dry socks after a wet day.</div>
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I love blankets warmed by dogs.</div>
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I love moments of peaceful silence.</div>
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I love the gift that is our life, the promise of each new day, the wonder that is the simple act of breathing in and out.</div>
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I don't love the hard stuff. I can't even pretend. The hurt, the sorrow, the sadness. The loss, the loneliness, the tears.</div>
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I do love how the hard stuff makes me appreciate the little things all the more. Every hug I get from my Mom is dearer today than it was six months ago, when we didn't know then what we know today.</div>
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Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-67481939483817439822015-09-03T07:02:00.000-07:002015-09-03T07:02:33.991-07:00It's Time To LeapBoxes are being packed and clothes are sorted into the yes, no, maybe piles. Last minute details are being thought of and added to a list that is becoming shorter and shorter as the days tick by. This is it. We are about to be empty nesters.<br />
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Of course there were days in the past 20 years, when babies screamed or frustrations mounted or exhaustion set in, that we looked to this day as a day of freedom. We will have done it! Raised two kids to adulthood!<br />
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Who knew those 20 years would feel like they went by in a second? Yet, here we are, about to send our baby off to college. We will come home to a quieter, emptier house. I feel a little bit nervous, not just for our daughter off doing new college things, but for us, learning how to do this as two people, not just 'mom' and 'dad'.<br />
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We stand on the edge of new possibilities and know with one step, we will start writing the next chapter. I don't want us to be timid with our steps. This is going to be a grand adventure, with travel and fun and all around good times with lots of hand holding and secret language smiles. Be brave! Be bold! Be us!<br />
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So, buck up little cowboys, it's time to leap.Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-65309672557917358902015-07-16T08:06:00.003-07:002015-07-16T08:06:27.045-07:00Coffee ConfessionConfession: I'm not sure I'm wild about the taste of coffee. <div>
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But I'm not convinced I love the taste.</div>
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Yet I keep coming around to the idea that I don't love the taste.</div>
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I would question myself and ask if I'm an addict, but I can go days without it. I can go camping and not suffer the unbearable withdrawals....but I miss it. I miss the ritual of measuring the grounds and hearing the coffee pot start to perk. I miss the aroma and the feel of holding a warm mug in my hand. I miss that first bit of morning, when the world is quiet and I'm giving myself another 15 minutes to sit and relax and drink my coffee.</div>
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I like the comfortable routine of starting my day off with a cup of hot beverage. And since I positively hate tea, coffee is for me!</div>
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This post is inspired by prompt #1 at <a href="http://www.mamakatslosinit.com/">Mama's Losin' It!</a></div>
Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-84464347547280046892015-07-11T08:58:00.001-07:002015-07-11T08:58:49.190-07:0018 Years Ago TodayHere is where I get a little teary eyed and start looking for that elusive box of tissue.<br />
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Eighteen years ago today, right about now, I was starting day two of trying to have a baby. Yesterday's induction didn't take and I was sick with preeclampsia and there wasn't much option for us at that point except to have a baby now. <br />
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I'd spent a restless night tossing and turning in the hospital bed, with my husband snoring next to me on the fold out chair, and I was so ready to be done. Let's go, baby, I thought. Get a move on!<br />
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And now, it's been 18 years, in a blink of an eye. That moment she was born, purple with the cord around her neck, to first days of preschool, middle school, high school, trips to Seaside, Washington DC, France, needing to be carried, needing to hold my hand, needing to snuggle in my bed, needing to borrow the car, needing to be grown, all has passed in an instant.<br />
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I'm standing here, looking at this amazing young woman, and I'm so proud of her. She marches to her own drummer, always has, and I pray she always will! <br />
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Although, the tables have turned. I'm not the one saying "Let's go, get a move on!" She is. She is ready to cannonball into life! I'll be at her side, with a towel and sunscreen, cheering her on.Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-52322888841279936022015-07-03T20:14:00.001-07:002015-07-03T20:15:29.256-07:00Things I Want My Daughter To KnowI thought I'd close this chapter of our lives with a post of all the things I want my daughter to know before she takes that next leap into adulthood. I started to make a list of, in my opinion, profound bits of wisdom, but one by one I crossed them off because the things I was writing, were things that she knows.<br />
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I've done my job then. She knows all the things I wanted to impart.<br />
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Except, this one thing, that I know she will roll her eyes at and say "Mama," in that exasperated tone that only almost 18 year old girls can do, but this one thing is going to be true for the rest of her life. She might as well accept it.<br />
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She will always, always, always be my child, and I will never stop loving her or worrying about her or trying to help her in anyway I can.<br />
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That's what moms do.....we love our children.<br />
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Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-16052602417139040042015-06-01T06:56:00.003-07:002015-06-01T06:56:49.994-07:00Our Favorite ThingsAnother year, another Seaside trip; it doesn't get old. The excitement of the road trip as we get closer and closer, until we are counting down the minutes until we are out of the car and thoughts of the beach, the sand, the snacks, the buckets, the shovels and kites fill our heads and hearts. It was a good trip, fun, great weather, and I know I'm not the only one who wished it was just one day longer!<br />
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Renna: the water</div>
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I thought of last night, watching my daughter accept her valedictorian sash, another award for top scholarship in the state of Washington, and monetary scholarships for the next step in her life. I listened to the words she'd written, how she didn't set out to be valedictorian, but once she realized she was on a straight 4.0 roll, she knew she would work hard to stay rolling, how one of her greatest achievements in school was maxing out in weight training, how her humor is under appreciated (but that seems less true based on how much laughter her speech generated) and I was stunned by the knowledge that I helped shape this confident, fearless, wonderful girl.<br />
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Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-62827947566671070122015-03-02T20:05:00.001-08:002015-03-02T20:05:21.497-08:00I Survived!The good news is I survived the monster under the coach. After much searching and picking up and an all around straightening on a find the shoe housecleaning spree, I found it. It was under the couch. The floor wasn't too dirty, so I got right down and reached way back for the one thing that would complete my outfit.<br />
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The bad news is the monster has terrible sharp claws or teeth or both. It now has a taste for my blood.<br />
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The good news is I looked pretty amazing, complete with a Toy Story Band-aid.Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-7354413583352853342015-02-04T06:32:00.000-08:002015-02-04T06:32:10.132-08:00Run With ItToday is a new day: a fresh page and my pencil sharpened. <br />
I'm going to focus on the good, let the bad fall way.<br />
Today has all the potential in the world,<br />
I'm going to run with it.<br />
Except for actually running, because I don't do that.<br />
I'm going to fast walk this day, with three dogs and a cooling cup of coffee:<br />
Today is going to be tackled and tamed;<br />
And if it's not exactly that: oh well.<br />
At the end of today I will be able to say I tried!<br />
Tomorrow has all the potential too.....Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-71126886054947752802015-01-08T17:39:00.000-08:002015-01-08T17:39:24.483-08:00This Will Be A Funny StoryLast week when we read through our year of blessings, I read one that I had written, saying whatever is living under the porch and making the dogs crazy, is going to make a funny story one day.<div>
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Erik is home<br />
Date with mom, it's nice to be a kid & have her undivided attention<br />
Blue skies & sunshine so brilliant on a cold morning it hurts<br />
Cousin dance party at #3 nephews birthday, I joined in when All the Single Ladies played<br />
Evening walks with Leah and the dogs<br />
Scrambled eggs for dinner two nights in a row<br />
Our spring break day! Shopping, movies, food & spending time with Leah, wonderful!<br />
A 50 cent horse puzzle, with all the pieces<br />
Saying 'yes' to Leah's trip to France and seeing her excitement<br />
Date night on a Monday!<br />
Lunch & shopping with "the girls" Mom, Amy, Lisa and me<br />
The spreadsheet of my dreams<br />
Sunday nights when Erik is home, watching The Walking Dead<br />
I opened my door to find a Marine standing at attention-Travis!!!-home for a moment, surprise visit<br />
Breakfast at The Bluebird....always reminds me of going there after our ultrasound said 80% chance of baby girl and we ate breakfast and said Leah is a very good name....<br />
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It was such a good thing, such a blessing to read our years worth of blessings, we carefully smoothed flat all those notes, found envelopes to hold them, stored them in our hope chests, and started 2015's good things jars.<br />
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First good thing of this year: hearing my name as I was walking the dogs, and turning to see Leah catching up with me. Walking with her and listening to her stories is the perfect start to this year.<br />
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No, this isn't a New Years Resolution,<br />
Yes, you haven't seen me walking in awhile.<br />
Yes, it does coincide nicely with New Years Day.<br />
No, this really is not a New Years Resolution.<br />
But, it is a renewed commitment to get out and walk whenever I can and today is a day off and the sun is shining so I bundled up and hit the sidewalks.....<br />
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For all you know, I get up at 5 AM to walk every day.<br />
I don't.<br />
But I could if I wanted to. <br />
But I don't.<br />
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Still, this is not a resolution.<br />
It's a commitment.<br />
And that is Entirely Different.<br />
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I am from a long, winding road, a Grandview in every way.<br />
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I am from the Wild Mountain Blackberry, the hunt, the clothes catching, skin scratching thorns, the better patch is just over the next hill, the filled to the brim buckets, the more precious than gold pie.<br />
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I am from Ogres and the secret to safety: biting fingernails, humming, whistling, all at the same time, from Christy and Dan and Amy and Lisa.<br />
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I am from weak arms after side splitting rounds of laughter and furniture mover extraordinaire, as long as I haven't been laughing.<br />
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I am from Let's Go To The Movies and You Are My Sunshine.<br />
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I am from Jesus Loves Me and This I Know and faith just because it is faith.<br />
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I am from the one place that has never changed, from Grandpa coming in for tea, and Grandma in the kitchen baking, from a cookie jar never empty of chocolate chip cookies and tales of lutefisk and pickled herring.<br />
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I am from yearly sister trips to Seaside, the feel of cold sand under our bare feet, blankets and jackets for wrapping up in, and the way watching our kids play on the beach makes us glad.<br />
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I am from a place of love and pride, of senior pictures lining hallways, of fridge doors held together by Masterpieces, of the knowledge that my family is behind me, beside me, united with me, all the way, all the time.<br />
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This post is inspired by prompt #1 at <a href="http://www.mamakatslosinit.com/">Mama's Losin' It!</a><br />
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<br />Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-29494518344048822152014-11-26T20:44:00.001-08:002014-11-26T20:44:34.766-08:00What It Is, What It Isn'tLove isn't just some words I say<br />
Reading them by rote off a page<br />
Little kid anticipating a gold star<br />
Trembling, hoping, Teacher recognize me!<br />
I'm reading real good today.<br />
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It's not an accidental habit<br />
An uncontrollable tick<br />
A compulsion that overrides my brain<br />
In thoughtless repetition<br />
As everyday routine as breathing in and out.<br />
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I will take this fragile hopeful feeling<br />
And I will grow it in the cold dark moments<br />
Greenhouse style with humid warmth<br />
So in the sunshine glory days<br />
It will cover us both and we can't help but grin.<br />
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<br />Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-58643042295130551512014-11-21T06:26:00.000-08:002014-11-21T06:26:00.156-08:00Moment of PerfectionThat moment when you turn on your car, and the best song in the universe is just starting, and you turn it up louder than you usually would because it is that good, and the sky is pale, pale blue with the sun throwing it's chilly day glow around and even though you've become one of the three little kittens and lost your mittens, the steering wheel isn't so cold you can't stand to touch it, and you can't help but smile because everything about this moment, in this day, is absolute perfection.Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-50474177766465056302014-11-20T16:24:00.003-08:002014-11-20T16:24:46.826-08:00The Fives Have ItFive things you don't know about me:<br />
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1. I take a lot of selfies. I'll take a selfie on a family vacation because I know exactly the right angle that makes me look fantastic!<br />
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2. I'm crazy for vintage Christmas. When eBay opens up, it wants to show me all the recently listed vintage Christmas things, and I usually let it.<br />
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3. I wear my hair up in a messy bun every night to sleep. If I didn't pile it up high (crazy Kim Kardashian break the internet high) I die of heat stroke. Even with the fan blowing on me.<br />
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4. I hate the word 'slacks.' Consequently, you won't find any of those things in my closet!<br />
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5. I'm a terrible speller, the worst actually, but I read so much entertainment news, I had no problem at all spelling "Kardashian".....but I spelled 'consequently' wrong.<br />
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I know tons of stuff about:<br />
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1. Vintage (Christmas especially!)<br />
2. Mac Davis<br />
3. Walking three dogs at the same time<br />
4. Forgiveness<br />
5. Anne of Green Gables (I'm re-reading the series. Again!)<br />
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I know nothing about:<br />
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1. Statistics<br />
2. Mechanics<br />
3. Training for a Triathlon<br />
4. Raising more than two kids<br />
5. The sanity of a one dog house<br />
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I believe in:<br />
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1. Don Williams<br />
2. Love<br />
3. Things I can't explain<br />
4. My Mother senses will never stop working<br />
5. Family<br />
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This post inspired by prompt #5 at <a href="http://www.mamakatslosinit.com/">Mama's Losin' It!</a>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-25234716967419978502014-11-14T07:37:00.001-08:002014-11-14T21:53:56.581-08:00Show and TellAs a child, show and tell was this glorious, wonderful, hideous day at school. I'd search the house for just the right show and tell, the perfect treasure to share with my classmates, and most of the time I would not share it. Getting up in front of the class was terror inducing for me! But I never lost the joy of the hunt, and the hope that I might be brave enough to share.<br />
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Years ago, I bought this book about dogs, because it has a lovely page all about Beagles, and I love me some Beagles.<br />
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Yesterday, I took a me day. I had the day off and the desire to thrift shop, and the urge to drive far and away from my usual thrifting haunts. I had a great time, pushing the cart up and down the aisles, piling the booty up, when out of the corner of my eye I saw a Beagle in the framed art section. <br />
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I pushed my way through two old people and scooped it up. I didn't even think twice about the price ($14.99 is a bit spendy at a thrift store!) but I was so in love with the picture, I had to have it.<br />
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Because it is my book page, all framed up like I thought I might have done! Now to find the perfect spot to hang it up....I mean, it can only sit at the table like a member of the family for a week before members of my human family might get tired of a dining room chair being claimed by a framed picture!</div>
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Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-57404070406958152782014-11-06T10:47:00.004-08:002015-01-02T09:11:07.340-08:00Real TalkI may not always say the right thing.<br />
Actually, I know I won't always say the right thing.<br />
I know I won't always have the right words.<br />
I will make mistakes,<br />
I will make<i> </i>huge mistakes,<br />
That make you harden your eyes<br />
And give me a well deserved glare.<br />
But I promise I will always try.<br />
I will always give of myself, over and above,<br />
I will always love and support and care for you,<br />
All ways, all hows, all time,<br />
Because that is what Moms do.<br />
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Inspired by prompt #5 at <a href="http://www.mamakatslosinit.com/">Mama's Losin' It!</a>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-3627354123346262932014-11-04T06:24:00.000-08:002014-11-04T06:24:04.449-08:00Day ThreeIt's day three with the dogs, in this terrible daylight savings time, terrible because they can't actually tell time by looking a clock, even a digital one, so they let their bodies rule their roosts. Thus, it's day three of dogs barking at 5:00 AM. <br />
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They like to argue that it is only 5:00 AM because we archaically still set our clocks ahead an hour. It's really 6:00 AM and I should know how much they want to get out of crate at 6:00 AM.<br />
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Isn't that just like a dog? Always trying to turn it back on you, so you know how wrong you are while they remain supremely right.<br />
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Or maybe that's just my dogs.Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-21122884390303283322014-11-03T18:39:00.001-08:002014-11-03T18:39:28.818-08:00Pop Rocks and SodaAs a kid, before this glorious invention of the Internet, where I can literally tap a microphone button and ask a question that I have been pondering (recent queries include "do slugs eat their dead?" and "what is sweetbread?"), before all this glorious knowledge that is at my fingertips just for the asking, things that weren't true couldn't be proven so without perilous risk to life and limb.<div>
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Take Pop Rocks and soda: this is a long held belief that eating the candy Pop Rocks and drinking a carbonated beverage at the same time would result in your insides exploding. It killed that kid that only likes Life cereal.</div>
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I know it's not true. I know Mikey is alive and well and probably still loving Life cereal because, truthfully, it is the best cereal ever. </div>
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But am I willing to put this knowledge to the test?</div>
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No way.</div>
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Knowing something isn't going to kill you, a truth that goes against years of believing otherwise, isn't easily swallowed.</div>
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Besides, just my luck I would get sick on it and be the one person in the world that can't ingest that much carbonation! Better play it safe, and avoid that experiment.</div>
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While I'm at it, I'll also skip Mentos and soda. </div>
Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-67621818553525602932014-11-02T08:38:00.001-08:002014-11-02T08:38:41.761-08:00Long Term KnowingIs blogging like being in a long term relationship? The kind where you've been together for so long, you know every story before it's finished in the telling and you've heard it at least 10 times before. You know the thoughts and opinions on things encountered on a daily bases because you've heard those same thoughts and opinions expressed all the time. You've got nothing new to share.<br />
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I thought of that as I walked around in squeaky shoes. I should blog about that, I thought, how much I absolutely hate squeaky shoes. Oh, wait. <a href="http://butteredtoastrocks.blogspot.com/2013/07/squeaks-and-squiffles.html">I wrote about that already.</a> Or maybe I should write about getting a hole in my tights. But I <a href="http://butteredtoastrocks.blogspot.com/2013/03/quick-change-artist.html">did that here</a> <a href="http://butteredtoastrocks.blogspot.com/2012/03/frankenstein-tights.html">and here</a> <a href="http://butteredtoastrocks.blogspot.com/2011/10/trails-and-tribulations-of-tights.html">and here too.</a> I could write about being <a href="http://butteredtoastrocks.blogspot.com/2012/04/v-is-for-verily.html">cranky</a> or how I turned that around to realize how <a href="http://butteredtoastrocks.blogspot.com/2012/10/my-thank-you-speech.html">thankful</a> I am. I could write about <a href="http://butteredtoastrocks.blogspot.com/2012/12/keeping-normal.html">my kids</a> or <a href="http://butteredtoastrocks.blogspot.com/2012/01/small-stone-18.html">my dogs</a> or <a href="http://butteredtoastrocks.blogspot.com/2012/08/breath-dogpatch-style.html">my husband</a> or <a href="http://butteredtoastrocks.blogspot.com/2012/03/laughing-while-it-hurts.html">my sisters</a> or <a href="http://butteredtoastrocks.blogspot.com/2008/05/in-honor-of-mom.html">my mom</a>.<br />
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But I've done all that. I've written all about all the things I think about, sometimes more than once.<br />
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So I guess my dear readers better strap in and get ready for some posts that they will know the ending to before I type the last word! I'm feeling that old urge to write, and as I find my way, I might just repeat some. Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-84625042427117960762014-11-01T08:11:00.000-07:002015-01-02T09:11:35.399-08:00It's The Last TimeI recently read <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/marion-franck/what-you-need-to-know-about-6-foot-trick-or-treaters_b_6030982.html?utm_hp_ref=parents&ir=Parents&utm_source=scarymommy.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=pubexchange_facebook">this article</a> and I felt its truth all the way to my soul. As my son grew up, he stopped trick or treating, choosing to stay home and hand out candy, but my daughter has been the opposite. She has embraced every Halloween as joyfully as she did when she was a toddler.<br />
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Every year since she reached a certain age, a certain maturity, a certain height, I cringed when people asked what I was doing for Halloween. I will admit to worrying about how others would react when they heard I was taking my high school daughter and her friends trick or treating. Would they think the girls were too old? That I should tell them to leave this night of childhood joy behind and be young adults? Would they be turned away from doors with the admonishment that Halloween is for kids?<br />
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The thing is, she is still a kid. She plans her costumes, she embraces the fun and excitement of this night, she knocks on her great-grandparents door to show off her outfit, she says thank you with real gratitude. She is a high school senior this year, this last year of true childhood, and I know this will be the last time I take her out, with the car full of laughing girls and sugar flowing through veins. I am going to savor it. I am not ashamed of wanting her to stay young as long as she can. <br />
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There will be plenty of years to come when she will be standing on the other side of the door, handing out the treats. <br />
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<br />Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-90391001992937960882014-10-30T06:46:00.000-07:002014-10-30T10:23:52.224-07:00Not So BitterThe twists and turns of life could make me bitter.<br />
I could moan and groan and cry for want of what ifs.<br />
The ways of things have not always been easy,<br />
But I find that I can find the joy in living.<br />
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I'm so grateful for this magnificent talent,<br />
I might not have the skills to play on key music,<br />
Or cook a feast of gourmet magic,<br />
But I can see every day's sunrise promise.<br />
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That's not to say I don't have rotten moments,<br />
And times of wanting to throw a tantrum!<br />
But deep inside I have a knowledge<br />
That life is life and I can make the best of it.<br />
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This post inspired by prompt #3 at <a href="http://www.mamakatslosinit.com/">Mama's Losin' It!</a>Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05754778263332756663noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-902905486725039444.post-41201253404869172692014-10-09T17:48:00.000-07:002014-10-09T17:48:15.611-07:00It's Laugh Or CryLast night I sent this text to my husband:<br />
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"The why's and how's are not important, just this awful truth: our dogs ate people poop off our living room floor."<br />
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In these true life experiences, often the choice is to laugh or to cry. I'm going to laugh. Sure, there was poop on the floor, and yes, the dogs found it before any of us adult type people knew there was a problem, but holy macaroni, this is going to be a darn funny story to tell for the rest of our lives!<br />
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This post inspired by prompt #2 at <a href="http://www.mamakatslosinit.com/">Mama's Losin' It!</a><br />
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