Thursday, April 11, 2013

J Is For Jersey Boy

Back in our younger years, my husband and I moved across country courtesy of the Coast Guard.   When he was in 'A' school, we carefully went over the units that were available, and based on the fact that we'd been together less than 6 non-consecutive months of our first year of marriage, our number one goal was a unit that would allow him to be stationed shore side and home most nights.

That narrowed our choice down to one: Sandy Hook, New Jersey.  I was worried that our chance of getting  his top pick was slim, but he said it was Jersey, it wasn't on anyone's top pick.  That was their loss and our gain!

As with most big, life changing choices, this idea seemed great and no big deal until we actually started to drive ourselves away from our home and families.  We arrived in New Jersey in August, homesick, exhausted from a cross country drive, and sweaty-sticky due to no a/c in our little car.  We were rumbled, sunburned, nervous, but as we followed the directions to the base and drove through the National Park that is Sandy Hook, with the ocean on both sides of the spit of land, with sandy beaches and the hot Jersey sun, we got excited.  This was going to be a really cool place to live.

This marked the start of our Jersey years and what a wonderful couple of years that was!  We made so many memories, had so many adventures exploring the state and traveling up and down the coast from Prince Edward Island to Delaware, but the best one of  all was having a little Jersey Boy of our own.

Our son was born in New Jersey and breathed in that wonderful ocean air from the first days of his life.  He teethed on east coast pizza crusts and took some of his first steps on sandy beaches with a view of New York City.  He might not look like he comes from the Jersey Shore, but he does.

We wouldn't have it any other way!




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    1. It was! Made more so after our apartment got a/c!

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  2. Good story! My husband is a Jersey boy, born and bred. I lived there for a handful of years before moving to a place with even more water and more seashore - FL. :)

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    1. We're back in the Pacific Northwest, and one thing I've learned is I don't want to live far from the ocean!

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  3. From one shore to the other, huh?!

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    1. Yep! It's a 30 minute drive from here to the beach, but still close enough for me to love.

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  4. We did Mr Bankerchick's shore duty years in Key West, Fla back in the 60's. Ir was my first time away from home.
    Katie atBankerchick Scratchings

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    1. I'd wanted to go all the way down to Key West, but on our drive home, our truck broke down. We had to cut out quite a bit of our sight-seeing travel and dropping down to FL was out of the question.

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  5. Very cool story. It sounds like a great place to live.
    Shawn at Laughing at Life 2

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    1. Thanks! Hurricane Sandy did a number on our old base, though, and it is being closed due to extreme damage. We never did get back there to show our son his first home.

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    1. Thanks! The night before 'J' day, I told my husband I hated J, I had no words for it, and he said write about Jersey. He was right!

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